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Family Violence Programme

Reclaiming YOUR Mana. We currently focus on supporting men to make healthy changes through our Living Without Violence Programme (LWVP).

We offer programmes in English, Samoan, Tongan & Hindi. You can click on the links below to find out more about these specific programmes & what the best option is for you, or you can always reach out to us & we can advise you.

→ Polokalama Ki He Mo’ui Tau’ataina Mei Ta Moe Fakamamahi (FVP) Kulupu Lea Faka Tonga - Tongan Family Violence Programme

→ Soifua Pe Ola E Aunoa Ma Le Sauaga (FVP) Kulupu i le gagana Samoa - Samoan Family Violence Programme



Features of the Living Without Violence Programme:

  • Designed to teach skills required to express yourself & understand others safely & respectfully

  • Ministry of Justice approved

  • Runs anywhere from 12 - 18 weeks (depending on the outcome of your initial interview)

  • Groups are delivered mostly onsite at Friendship House, Manukau in the evenings

  • Age specific groups available (eg. young men 18 - 22)

 
Family Violence Programme topics (9 modules):

  1. Barriers & Goals

  2. Making Changes and Supports

  3. Anger and Early Warning Signs

  4. Anger Management and Safety Planning

  5. Communication

  6. Violence

  7. Violence - Sexual Violence

  8. Violence - Sexual Respect 

  9. Violence - Impact & Effects of Family Violence

  10. Power & Control

  11. Power & Control - Equality

  12. Relationships – Responsibilities as a Parent

  13. Relationships – Healthy Relationships 

  14. Cyber Bullying 

  15. Alcohol & Other Drugs 


When are FV Programmes available?

Our programmes run continuously so that men can start at any time.  

  • 1 on 1 interviews are usually between 8.30am and 4.30pm

  • Weekly two & a half hour group sessions (12 - 18 sessions in total)

  • An individual one hour completion interview (1 hour)

How do I complete a programme?

By participating in:

  • A 1:1 initial interview (interview times are usually between (8am – 4pm)

  • A two & a half hour orientation evening (usually on a Monday evening 6pm – 8.30pm) before going in to a group

  • Weekly two & a half hour group sessions (15 in total)

  • An individual one hour completion interview (1 hour)

Additional FAQ about our Family Violence Programme 

Find answers to common questions about our Living Without Violence Programme and the ways we support men to make safe, healthy changes. If your question isn’t covered, please contact us — we’re here to help.  

  • No, you do not need a court referral. Men can self-refer or be referred by a friend, family member, employer, or another support agency. 

  • No, the Living Without Violence Programme is free of charge. 

  • We encourage regular attendance, but if you miss a session due to illness or an emergency, please contact us as soon as possible. We can discuss options to make up for the missed content. 

  • The group sessions are for men only, but we can involve whānau in parts of your journey if appropriate and can refer your partner or family to additional support services if needed. 

  • It’s completely normal to feel this way. Our team will support you through the process, and the initial one-on-one interview is a good opportunity to ask questions and discuss any concerns before starting the group sessions. 

Contact us to make a referral for yourself or someone you know. 

For more information, get in touch with our team.

 
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To make a referral please contact our team here.

To contact us for more information contact our team here.